For the Guys: How to be Broke and Still be a Ladies Man
A
relationship and lifestyle writer, who is also a blogger, has penned an
interesting article for the guys who think because they are broke, they
aren't lovable by women.
Let’s
not be pretenders here and say we love broke men, truth is no one wants
to date a broke man, money is one of the things that keep a
relationship going and strong, it doesn’t matter who’s providing it be
it the man or the woman, as long as there’s money there’s happiness.
So
shouldn’t broke men date? or have women flock around them, How’s it
possible for someone who can’t fulfill the financial needs of women have
one in his life? Let me give you a small gist using my brother as a
case study, loll I hope he doesn’t read this, well he will, he can’t
kill me.
My
brother happens to be someone who’s isn’t financially buoyant now or
really handsome but I can’t count the number of girls that flock around
him, both the beautiful and the ugly and the “Somehow” type of girls, I
was always skeptical like, how does he keep them and always make them
happy, now it’s pertinent to know he wasn’t dating all of them, or most
of them but they always flocked around him and one day I made it my
mission to find out why.
These
were the things I noticed during my SPY mission to find out why ladies
loved this shy and gentle but still broke yet brother of mine.
You
cannot be broke and have a strong name like, Chukwuma, or Obinna, Or
Gbenga or Muyideen, these names don’t appease to women unless you’re
sitting in an air conditioned car or something, I noticed my brother
changed his name to “Passion” mind you his real name is Ikechukwu, sharp
guy.
You
cannot be broke and be rude, my brother is one of the nicest people I
know, maybe it’s a natural gift but that guy can nice for Africa and
y’all know how ladies feel about nice guys, especially guys they feel
they can use because he’s nice, well na so things de take enter pant.,
from doing free assignments to being a shoulder to cry on, mehn I wonder
how these girls flock around him.
You
can’t be broke and be stingy, these girls they know you’re broke
already, they chose to be friends with you even with your brokeness and
all of a sudden you’re eating 100 naira bread and you don’t want to
share, dude, this is one way to chase girls far away from your life,
always be nice and calm, women love to spend money on men they see as
“Helpless but nice” and I have noticed my brother being this way, not
just with girls this time but with everyone.
You
don’t have to dress expensive, but you need to dress nice, don’t overdo
it when trying to impress women, even if you have one shirt make sure
it’s always clean and ironed, dress smart, dress clean but always dress
nicely.
Learn
to check up constantly on your female friends, this works all the time,
we love attention, we bask in its presence and it doesn’t matter who’s
giving it to us, as a broke guy there’re so many cheap call plans you
can choose from, when you call a lady just to check up on her, ask about
her wellbeing and everything, believe me you’re gradually penetrating
her heart, winning her over and making her like you more than usual,
believe me I learnt this from my brother, that guy is always making and
receiving calls.
Who
says broke men can’t find the women of their dreams, all they need do
is change their approach and personae and see things change for the
better, do these things and thanks me later.
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