Husband jealous because I'm on point
Is it normal for my husband to be jealous and accuse me of cheating just because I'm always on point and always on my phone?
It's really frustrating when I'm being accused of something I'm not doing and it actually makes me think he is the one doing it but is just playing psychological games with me.MOM replies: It is normal. Don't be hard on him. Maybe you never used to be on point and he is now thinking the motivation for this change is another man. Reassure him by brushing his comments aside. And get those silly thoughts of his cheating out of your mind. He is not cheating unless your gut feel and evidence say he is!
BOITUMELO replies: Since you have noticed that he is not taking it well, what can you do to improve communication in your home? Though it's wrong for him to undermine your intelligence and jump to think that the attention of another man is responsible for your confidence.
Maybe reflect on the things that could be contributing to such an offensive accusation. It could be your new found confidence is making him feel insecure.
It could be that his ego is challenged and he needs your help adjusting to the new you. Perhaps he needs your affirmation.
MY MAN is cheating with his ex, yet he claims that I'm the one he loves. How can I handle this situation because I love him too?
MOM replies: That man is having his bread buttered on both sides. If you already know that he is dating his ex, he is not cheating. He is dating both of you simultaneously. Walk away! Don't even try to win him back. Once you start dating someone new, he will try to win you back! If he goes out of his way to get you back, maybe it's true that he loves you.
BOITUMELO replies: You are already competing for his love with his ex-girlfriend. He can't even make up his own mind about the two of you and be committed to his choice. He is going back and forth between the two of you. Is he perhaps, confused about which to choose or maybe he is just taking advantage of the two of you? It looks like he needs to sort himself out first.
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