FROM LOVERS TO FRIENDS, REALLY LOVE MAKE IT POSSIBLE
Many people say you
can’t be “just friends” with someone you still Love after a breakup. But
that is simply not true. It all depends on the kind of relationship you
had with that person.
Naturally, if there was
abuse involved, then that is a different story, and some people just
make better friends than lovers. But forgiveness is always the key after
a breakup; forgiving yourself and the other party.
Time heals, and if you
say you actually Loved that person, then that Love will still be there,
and you will always care. Love should never turn to hate just because
you broke up with someone. There is no hate in Love, and if you feel
hatred for that person, maybe you were never in Love with them in the
first place. It’s just your ego was hurt.
There are a lot of
emotions after a breakup that we have to work through, but once we take
the time to heal, that person we say we Loved, we will always care
about. We should want nothing but the best for them. That’s a part of
real Love. I was fortunate enough to remain friends with people who
played a significant role in my life.
I knew that harboring
resentment and hate for someone would only destroy me. Once I moved on
and forgave myself and them, I was able to be a friend if they ever
wanted to talk or needed anything.
To Love again, you need
to be a Loving person. Your attributes should never change just because
your relationship went sour. Only change the negative things about
yourself that may cause problems later on. But yes, you can still be
friends with people you once Loved. It may be rare, but it is possible.
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